Updated: May 18
Dear Mystery Mother,
I am in a real dilemma. So I dated my son's father for 16 years. We broke up about 2 years ago because I found out he was cheating on me with my best friend's cousin. We broke up and they decided to move on with their relationship. She is currently 6 months pregnant by him. I also have met someone but we are not as serious just dating. About 2 months ago my son's father came over to pick him up. He arrived earlier than I expected as my son was still over at his friend's house for a sleepover he wasn’t due back for an hour. During that time waiting on our son, we started talking and rehashing our relationship and old memories. No, we did not have sex at that time. However, we began texting and talking almost daily. After texting and talking for about a week we met up for breakfast and ended up at my house and YES we did have sex this time and every other morning since. Part of me feels guilty because I know he has a child on the way with this woman. But the other part of me feels like it's her fault it's her karma. She knew he was in a relationship when she slept with him. She broke up our relationship so why should I feel bad. I’m writing because my sister thinks I should stop sleeping with him and move on with my life. What do you think Mystery Mother?
He My Baby Daddy
Dear He My Baby Daddy
So your baby daddy is your best friends cousins baby daddy now!
Now you know karma works all the way around don’t forget that. Yes, she is definitely dead ass wrong for sleeping with your baby daddy and breaking up your household. But how you even and get back at her is you let her have him. Trust me, you are not the only one he is sleeping with. Girl, you just breakfast, he got lunch and dinner too. Let that girl have that broken man and you go find yourself somebody worth putting miles on that coochie for. I understand being with someone familiar because sometimes familiarity feels good. But let's not forget that new thang can be better. Move forward listening to your sister leave him alone. Don’t tell the new baby mama just keep it to yourself let her karma come!!!!